Notes From The Journey: What I Learned in a Week of Firsts
It’s been a week of many firsts.
First year writing online. First 70 subscribers. Halfway through working on a short story I’m thrilled to be writing. I’ve officially started the CompTIA Certification program.
And to think, not too long ago, I complained about my progress.
It was too slow.
I didn’t feel like I was making enough progress. However, the devil is in the details. A year ago, I told my best friend that I wanted to grow my Substack account slow and steady. To this day, I don’t want to go viral. I don’t want to fall into fame or money suddenly.
I want to build something beautiful.
Something that will last long after I’m gone.
Obsessing over tactics and quick fixes won’t get me there. It won’t get you there either. What I’ve learned lately is that you have to take your time. Enjoy the journey.
When I set into motion all of my good fortune, I had no idea what I was doing.
I didn’t think I could manage this newsletter, work, attend class, and still have time for my numerous side projects. I didn’t see a way.
But months later, everything is in full swing, and I’m managing just fine.
The lesson there is that you are more capable than you think, doing anything you put your mind to--seriously.
I tell my best friend all the time that every day is a good day.
I woke up. I can sense the world around me. I have people in my life I love--not that I seek even their approval--and I’m on the most extraordinary journey of all--life.
And speaking of journeys, one area where I’ve seen my mindset evolve is how I view work — the classic 9-5.
Reframing the 9–5 Mindset
My feelings about the traditional 9-5 have softened over the last few weeks.
Don’t get me wrong, I still believe a 9-5 is a stepping stone, not a final destination. However, I also think it’s a significant milestone if you aspire to become an entrepreneur yourself.
Just because you know how to do the job doesn’t mean you know how to run a business successfully.
Like anything, you have the learn and experiment.
Thus, working on something that requires low energy should free you up to challenge your own expectations. Having a 9-5 you hate and not doing anything about it is no longer an excuse.
Make time for you.
Because, in the same way, I feel that a 9-5 is a stepping stone, it can also be the only step you take.
Don’t get stuck in a job because you never started something that brings you joy--stifling what makes you, you, just to fit in and feel safe.
Newsflash: everything is a risk.
The next breath you take could be your last; thus, it is a risk.
Don’t leave this world regretting that you didn’t take more risks because you were only focused on work, and others.
What’s one thing you’ve learned this week?
I really connected to the part about “building something beautiful that lasts.” That’s exactly how I’ve been thinking about my new X page. It’s not about going viral or chasing numbers, it’s about creating meaningful conversations around culture, music and sports. The slow build actually feels right when the vision’s long-term. This week I learned that it’s okay to move slowly as long as it’s with purpose. I’m so excited for all of your accomplishments here Idris and wish you many more to come!
I learned this week that you can’t rush creativity. I’ve been working on a short story too and instead of fighting the process I’m simply embracing the enjoyment of it. You really captured that feeling well here. I also learned that consistency beats inspiration and to be proud of my slow and steady growth. Well done on all of your growth too Idris Elijah and thank you for the inspiring read today!