This helped me see that doing daily journaling and meditating are important but only half of the work needed for better self- awareness. Introspection without external feedback is like trying to see the back of your head without a mirror! I have a few close friends whose perspectives I trust. I’m inspired to ask for their feedback more often. This was an eye-opening newsletter Idris Elijah!
Exactly! Journaling and meditating are important but only half of the story. Great intention also! Asking for feedback from your few close friends who you trust is excellent! So glad you found value in this issue 😇🙌🏾
You’ve touched on this before but today’s newsletter hit even deeper. I know all too well how “just look inside” is a myth and can really hold us back from true self-awareness. It reminded me of my journey with my daughter’s father and how I hoped introspection alone would be enough for both me and him.
Like you said, we all have blind spots and sometimes the truth we need most comes from others. Growth doesn’t mean perfection. It’s a willingness to evolve and that involves trusted feedback. Thank you Idris Elijah for shining a light where it’s needed most!
I co-sign everything you’ve just said Maria, very well put. Indeed self-awareness is two pronged. Glad you still found some value despite us covering this topic from a different angle. You’re most welcome, I felt it was necessary 😬🙌🏾
Your newsletter shifted my understanding of self-awareness in an important way. I used to confuse rumination with reflection and couldn’t figure out why I stayed stuck. The distinction you made between healthy self-reflection and destructive brooding gave me language for something I’ve struggled with for years. I’ll be much more intentional moving forward both in how I think and who I ask for feedback. Great content today Idris!
I’m so glad you found a lot of value from this issue and were able to obtain the vocabulary to describe things you’ve been dealing with. Great intention also. So glad you’re here! 😊🙌🏾
I loved your vulnerability when sharing about your twenties. It gave this newsletter a lot of heart and authenticity. It also reminded me that transforming our lives doesn’t happen in a bubble. I’m going to work on seeing feedback as a tool for growth instead of criticism. This was very well written and valuable to me Idris Elijah!!
Thank you Brooke, I really appreciate it! 🥹 I’m floored. I love your takeaway and your willingness to open up to feedback. My only suggestion would be to seek advice from people you love and respect. They are less likely to criticize you. Otherwise, you got this! 🙌🏾🤗
I’ve been quietly doing self-awareness work and your newsletters on this topic make me feel seen. The way you broke down the “just look inside” myth reminded me how important it is to let in trusted feedback, not just stay in my own head. Your honesty about your twenties was powerful. Thank you Idris Elijah for another grounding and thoughtful message!
Awww, Chloe that’s outstanding! I’m glad you feel seen on such an important topic. I’m also pleased you found value in my vulnerability—doesn’t always come easy. I appreciate you so much! Thank you ☺️🙏🏾
This helped me see that doing daily journaling and meditating are important but only half of the work needed for better self- awareness. Introspection without external feedback is like trying to see the back of your head without a mirror! I have a few close friends whose perspectives I trust. I’m inspired to ask for their feedback more often. This was an eye-opening newsletter Idris Elijah!
Exactly! Journaling and meditating are important but only half of the story. Great intention also! Asking for feedback from your few close friends who you trust is excellent! So glad you found value in this issue 😇🙌🏾
You’ve touched on this before but today’s newsletter hit even deeper. I know all too well how “just look inside” is a myth and can really hold us back from true self-awareness. It reminded me of my journey with my daughter’s father and how I hoped introspection alone would be enough for both me and him.
Like you said, we all have blind spots and sometimes the truth we need most comes from others. Growth doesn’t mean perfection. It’s a willingness to evolve and that involves trusted feedback. Thank you Idris Elijah for shining a light where it’s needed most!
I co-sign everything you’ve just said Maria, very well put. Indeed self-awareness is two pronged. Glad you still found some value despite us covering this topic from a different angle. You’re most welcome, I felt it was necessary 😬🙌🏾
Your newsletter shifted my understanding of self-awareness in an important way. I used to confuse rumination with reflection and couldn’t figure out why I stayed stuck. The distinction you made between healthy self-reflection and destructive brooding gave me language for something I’ve struggled with for years. I’ll be much more intentional moving forward both in how I think and who I ask for feedback. Great content today Idris!
I’m so glad you found a lot of value from this issue and were able to obtain the vocabulary to describe things you’ve been dealing with. Great intention also. So glad you’re here! 😊🙌🏾
I loved your vulnerability when sharing about your twenties. It gave this newsletter a lot of heart and authenticity. It also reminded me that transforming our lives doesn’t happen in a bubble. I’m going to work on seeing feedback as a tool for growth instead of criticism. This was very well written and valuable to me Idris Elijah!!
Thank you Brooke, I really appreciate it! 🥹 I’m floored. I love your takeaway and your willingness to open up to feedback. My only suggestion would be to seek advice from people you love and respect. They are less likely to criticize you. Otherwise, you got this! 🙌🏾🤗
I’ve been quietly doing self-awareness work and your newsletters on this topic make me feel seen. The way you broke down the “just look inside” myth reminded me how important it is to let in trusted feedback, not just stay in my own head. Your honesty about your twenties was powerful. Thank you Idris Elijah for another grounding and thoughtful message!
Awww, Chloe that’s outstanding! I’m glad you feel seen on such an important topic. I’m also pleased you found value in my vulnerability—doesn’t always come easy. I appreciate you so much! Thank you ☺️🙏🏾